“But fornication, and all uncleanness, or covetousness, let it not be named among you, as becometh saints; 4Neither filthiness, nor foolish talking, nor jesting, which are not convenient: but rather giving of thanks.” Ephesians 5.3-4
In v. 1 of this chapter in Ephesians we read these words: “Be ye therefore followers of God, as dear children … ” So we need to keep our thoughts within the context of this truth. In light of Paul’s call for us to be followers of God, he issues some severe warnings. You may read these verses and think to yourself, “He doesn’t need to tell us all these things. We are Christians don’t do those things.” Wouldn’t it be wonderful if every Christian obeyed the Holy Spirit and abstain from all the things Paul mentioned?
I am saddened to say that many of the practices of the unsaved have crept into the church over the years. We teach our teenagers to protect their bodies against ungodly sexual behavior, but many of them come right back at us with, “Everybody is doing it. If I am a Christian, what difference does it make? I’m going to heaven anyway.”
Stranger still is the Christian husband or wife who jumps off the path of righteous living and when they are discovered, their testimony is destroyed. Each one of us as we look at our husband or wife, needs to see your spouse and the relationship you have should be as unto the Lord. When you see your spouse, look beyond them, and see God standing just over their shoulder. Such a vision will remind you that as you engage in that relationship day after day, looking over their shoulder keeps you mindful that this relationship is unto the Lord first.
Paul’s final phrase is a good reminder: “rather giving of thanks.” When you remember to give thanks for the life God has given you, it will move your focus from the life dominated by the flesh to one that is dominated by the Spirit. Once again, these are just my thoughts …